zephyreverie said: Interesting how this Anon is asking about cheating....I think they need to do what feels right for them. If they know they aren't ever going to be able to let it go without always wondering in the back of their head if she's cheating again, then the best course of action is to leave them. It's not about giving the cheater a second chance. I've been a cheater before too, and it's just not a good feeling. And it's not a relationship either.